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Act Now - Time Is Running Out!
Your Future Self is Begging You
Hey there, my friend!
Remember last week’s facts about our universe and how we can make use of quantum physics to literally bend reality in our favor?
I've been contemplating something and I need to share it with you.
It's about time, existence, and why we must act on our boldest dreams NOW otherwise it’s too late.
Let’s dive in.
We Are Already Forgotten (And That's Incredibly Liberating!)
Let me hit you with an uncomfortable fact: In just three generations – about 100 years – 99% of us will be completely forgotten.
I've been looking this up and here's what stunned me:
Most of us can't name our great-great-grandparents
By 2123, nearly everything we worry about today will be irrelevant
Of the billions of humans who've lived before us, we know about less than 0.001%
So yeah - we/they/us/you and me are gonna be forgotten in no time.
If that is the case maybe it is time to really not give a f*ck about what other people think and go for it - whatever it is.
Even in natural history, boldness isn't just an option – it's nature's default strategy.
Not convinced?
Here are some facts:
98% of all species that ever existed are extinct. Yet life persists, adapts, evolves
The first creatures that developed wings were probably failing at gliding countless times
Early humans crossed vast oceans with primitive boats, having no idea what awaited them
Even plants take bold risks, sending seeds flying into the unknown on mere wisps of wind
We're not just the descendants of survivors – we're the descendants of risk-takers.

The Biology of Bold Moves
Our very bodies are built for bold action. When we take risks:
Our brains release dopamine, rewarding courage
Our neural pathways strengthen, making the next bold move easier
Our stress response system actually becomes more resilient
Our telomeres (chromosomal markers of aging) can even lengthen when we live purposefully
We're literally wired to grow through challenge and risk-taking.
The Mathematics of Regret
here's what's fascinating:
People regret inaction far more than action, even when both lead to negative outcomes
The average person has 12 major life regrets by age 70
84% of elderly people regret not taking more risks in their youth
Time spent hesitating compounds negatively, just like interest
Breaking Free from the Fear Loop
I've learned that our fear of judgment is just a evolutionary hangover from when social rejection meant death. But we're not cave people anymore. We're members of a global civilization with endless possibilities.
Our survival doesn't depend on fitting in – it depends on standing out.
The Bold Path Forward
So what do we do with all this cosmic perspective? Here's what I'm practicing:
Taking bold action precisely when fear shows up
Treating rejection as data, not disaster
Viewing each day as a mini-rebellion against mediocrity
Using the universe's timeline to right-size our worries
When I feel doubt creeping in, I remind myself: We're the descendants of star stuff and bold creatures. Playing it safe is the riskiest move we can make.
The Time is Always Now
Consider this: If we're going to be forgotten anyway, if Earth itself will eventually vanish into the sun's final embrace, why not make this brief flash of existence count?
We're not here to maintain the status quo.
We're here to push boundaries, chase dreams, and maybe, just maybe, leave a mark on the universe that sparks someone else's courage.
Time to Act: Your Bold Life Starts Now
Here's the raw truth I've learned:
Knowledge without action is just entertainment.
We're all fired up about our cosmic insignificance and infinite potential – great. But what are we going to do about it?
Right now, medical science is making incredible breakthroughs. We might live to 100, 120, who knows? But here's the brutal reality I want us to face: Today is still the youngest we'll ever be. Every heartbeat is one we'll never get back.
So let's turn this cosmic knowledge into earthly action.
Are You Ready?
Step 1: The Great Life Audit (Do This Today)
Try a simple but powerful exercise. Take out a piece of paper and answer these questions:
What activities make you lose track of time?
When was the last time you felt truly alive?
What would you do if your bank account was always full?
Which of your current activities would you continue if no one ever knew about them?
Be brutally honest. No one's watching.
Step 2: The Freedom Blueprint (This Week)
Look at where your time actually goes:
Track every hour for one week
Mark activities as either "soul-feeding" or "soul-draining"
Calculate how many hours you're trading for money
Identify your "golden hours" – when you feel most energized
Here's what shocked me when I did this: I was spending 50 hours a week helping someone else build their dream, while squeezing my passions into exhausted evenings.
Step 3: The Bold Exploration Phase (Next 30 Days)
Time to get uncomfortable:
Try one new thing every week
Talk to three people who are living your dream life
Start a side project that excites you
Kill one "should" from your life each week
Warning: Your primitive brain will fight this. It's programmed for safety, not fulfillment. Override it.
Step 4: Break Free from the Status Game
Most of what we call "goals" are just society's programming:
The luxury car that sits in traffic like everyone else's
The big house we're too busy working to enjoy
The prestigious title that looks good on LinkedIn but feels empty inside
Let's get real: We're chasing status to impress people we don't even like, to maintain a position in a game we never chose to play.
Step 5: Find Your True North (60-Day Challenge)
Here's what I'm proposing:
Spend 30 minutes each morning in complete silence
Write down your thoughts without filtering
Notice what excites you vs. what you think should excite you
Start saying no to anything that doesn't align with your inner voice
Look for patterns. Your soul's been whispering all along – we've just been too busy to listen.
Step 6: The Bold Action Framework
When you find something that calls to you:
Take micro-bold actions daily:
• Reach out to one person in that field
• Learn one new skill related to your passion
• Make one small investment in your dream
Build your freedom fund:
• Calculate your monthly survival needs
• Start storing "fuck you" money
• Cut expenses that don't serve your dream
• Focus on creating value, not trading time
Create your escape velocity:
• Set a non-negotiable deadline
• Share your plans with accountability partners
• Burn the boats (carefully but decisively)
The Time Paradox
We aren't guaranteed tomorrow, yet we live as if we have forever. The universe took 13.8 billion years to create this moment, and we're spending it in meetings we hate?
Stats That Shook Me:
The average person spends 90,000 hours at work in their lifetime
80% of people dislike their jobs
Most regret on their deathbed is not having the courage to live true to themselves
Only 3% of adults achieve their childhood dreams
But here's the flip side:
It takes about 4-12 months to become proficient at a new skill
Most successful businesses start as side projects
The average millionaire has 7 different income streams
The most fulfilled people rarely have the most prestigious jobs
The Bold Truth
We don't need more time – we need more courage.
We don't need more money – we need more meaning.
We don't need more status – we need more freedom.
Your Next Bold Move
Start now. Start messy. Start small.
But start.
Because while the universe might have billions of years left, we don't.
Our time is now. Our moment is here.
What bold move will you make today?
Your AI-Powered Launch Sequence
I've crafted a special prompt that turns ChatGPT into your personal Bold Move Strategist. After taking stock of your current life and dreams, use this tool to create your concrete escape plan.
Here's your launchpad:
Visit ChatGPT (https://chat.openai.com/)
Copy and paste the following prompt
Fill in the [bracketed sections] with raw honesty
Let AI help map your path to freedom
You are a Bold Life Strategist, specializing in helping people break free from societal constraints and create lives of true freedom and meaning. Your expertise combines practical escape planning, psychology of breaking free, and strategic life design. You provide actionable, step-by-step guidance for people ready to stop existing and start living.
Here's my situation:
[Describe your current life situation, what you secretly dream of doing, your fears, and your current resources]
Please provide:
1. A practical analysis of my current life vs. my potential life
2. Two immediate actions I can take today to start my transition
3. A 90-day freedom blueprint customized to my situation
4. Specific strategies to deal with pushback from family/society
5. A financial transition plan that minimizes risk while maximizing freedom
6. Three specific milestones to hit in my first year of freedom
Your advice should be practical, detailed, and based on real-world success patterns. Use a direct, no-BS tone, as if you're a freedom fighter helping a fellow human break free from the matrix.
HOW TO USE THE PROMPT
Example:
I'm a 29-year-old software developer making $120K/year. On paper, I'm "successful." In reality, I feel trapped. I dream of becoming a wilderness guide and photographer, spending my days in nature and creating art. I have $40K saved, no debt except a modest car payment, and I've been studying photography for 2 years as a hobby. My family thinks I'm insane to consider leaving tech. I live in a big city but feel most alive when I'm in the mountains. Every Sunday night, I get this pit in my stomach thinking about another week in the office. I know I need to change, but I'm terrified of giving up the "security" of my current life.
Here is the output I received for the example inputs above.

Read the full output here!
Final Push: Your Moment of Truth
Let me share something personal: Every time I've taken a bold move, every time I've chosen freedom over security, something incredible happened. The universe didn't just support my decision – it amplified it.
We're living in a time of unprecedented opportunity.
The digital age has torn down the walls between dreams and reality. The old rules of "pick a career and stick with it for 40 years" are dead.
The only question is:
Will we have the courage to seize this moment?
Remember:
Every molecule in your body was forged in the heart of a star
Your ancestors survived ice ages, predators, and countless challenges
You are the result of billions of years of successful evolution
The universe literally conspired to create you
And yet here we are, letting fear keep us small?
No more.
Because here's the truth: We can keep planning, keep preparing, keep waiting for the "perfect time"...
But the perfect time is a myth.
The only time is now.
So, my friend, are you gonna take that first step?
Thank you for allowing me to be a part of your growth journey.
Warm regards,
Stephan
P.S. Ready to join a community of bold life creators? I'm building a private group for people committed to breaking free and living life on their own terms. No gurus, no BS, just real support for real transformation. Drop a "🔥" in the reply if you want in.
P.P.S. Your future self is watching. Make them proud.