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The Most Dangerous Lie in Business (And Why It's Killing Your Dreams)

Hey there, my friend!
Want to know the most dangerous lie in business? "You need to work harder to succeed."
It's killing your creativity, destroying your potential, and keeping you trapped. And I see it claiming more victims every day.
Last week, during a conversation with a former colleague from Singapore, he proudly showed me his 16-hour workday schedule. "This is what it takes to make it" he said.
I had to laugh. Because I know something most people don't:
The harder you work, the harder you'll need to keep working.
Let me explain why less is actually more, and how this one insight changed everything about building wealth in 2024
Let’s dive in.
The Great Hustle Trap
Remember when working 80-hour weeks was seen as a badge of honor? I sure do. I lived that life in Singapore's financial district, thinking I was "winning" while my mind and body were shutting down.
Here's what nobody tells you: Every extra hour you work is actually making you less valuable in today's economy.
Think about it:
AI can work 24/7 without breaks
Machines don't need weekends
Algorithms don't burn out
If you're competing on hours, you've already lost.
The Reality of Value Creation
Success isn't about time invested - it's about value delivered.
Think about it. Right now, you're sitting on a gold mine of experiences:
Every challenge you've overcome
Every problem you've solved
Every shortcut you've discovered
Those 'ordinary' solutions you've figured out? It's a potential solution someone else desperately needs.
You don't need to be the world's greatest expert.
You just need to be a few steps ahead of those you're helping. Your journey, with all its mistakes and learnings, is incredibly valuable to those just starting out.
Think about your daily work. What comes easily to you that others find challenging? That's your sweet spot.
Your 4 Weeks Action Guide: Start Creating Value Today
Let me break down exactly how to turn your experience into value - no waiting, no complex systems, just practical steps you can take right now.
Three Ways to Start Today:
Knowledge Mining (Day 1-7)
Open a fresh document
List every problem you've solved in your career
Write down your unique solutions
Note which solutions others frequently ask you about
Value Validation (Week 1-2)
Share one solution on LinkedIn/Twitter
Write about a challenge you overcame
Help someone solve a specific problem
Document the questions people ask you
Solution Building (Week 2-4)
Choose your most requested solution
Create a simple guide explaining your approach
Share it with people who need it
Gather feedback and improve
The First Step Is The Smallest
In 2024, relying solely on a full-time income is riskier than starting something of your own. The beauty is, you don't need to quit your job to begin.
Start small:
Write your first article about a problem you solved
Create a simple guide someone can follow
Share your unique approach to a common challenge
Help one person overcome a specific obstacle
The Three Pillars of Success
Your Experience is Your Asset
Every challenge you've overcome, every lesson you've learned, every solution you've found - these are gold.
Package them. Share them.
Help others avoid the pitfalls you've already navigated.
Build in Public
Share your journey. Document your insights.
Let people learn from both your successes and failures. Authenticity beats perfection every time.
Create Scalable Solutions
Start with helping one person. Then turn that solution into something that can help thousands.
That's how you work less while impacting more.
Your Next Steps
This isn't about overnight success. It's about sustainable growth. Here's where to start:
Audit Your Energy
Track where your time and effort actually create value versus where you're just "being busy."
Find Your Sweet Spot
What problems do you solve naturally? What insights come easily to you but are valuable to others?
Build Your System
Create a framework that lets you deliver value consistently without burning out.
Your experience is valuable. Your solutions matter. And someone out there needs exactly what you know.
Harness AI: Your Personal Value Creatior
I've crafted a custom prompt that transforms ChatGPT into your Personal Value Creation Mentor. This AI tool will help you cut through noise and find authentic answers to getting you to your goal.
Here's how to use it:
Visit ChatGPT (https://chat.openai.com/)
Copy and paste the following prompt
Fill in your specific situation
Watch as AI helps you navigate your value creation
You are tasked with guiding individuals to identify and leverage their unique knowledge and experiences into valuable solutions for others. Your role involves extracting experiences, identifying potential solutions, and advising on practical implementation.
Here's my situation:
[Describe your work experience, the problems you've solved, and areas where people often ask for your help]
Please provide:
- **Analysis**: Break down the person's experiences to determine which aspects are most valuable to others. Focus on impact, uniqueness, and demand.
- **Packaging Strategies**: Propose two specific ways to present or package this knowledge, considering formats like workshops, online courses, eBooks, or coaching sessions.
- **Practical Framework**: Develop a step-by-step framework designed for effectively sharing and implementing these solutions.
- **Validation Methods**: Suggest methods for validating their approach to ensure it meets the target audience's needs and maintains quality.
- **Implementation Steps**: Outline concrete next steps to start implementing their strategies to maximize value creation.
Maintain an encouraging, empowering tone throughout to mentor the individual in unlocking their potential.
# Steps
1. **Experience Analysis**
- Review the provided experiences.
- Determine key areas of value based on expertise, challenges overcome, and common questions received.
2. **Packaging Knowledge**
- Recommend two specific formats or mediums suitable for their content and skills.
- Consider factors like audience size, scalability, and personal affinity.
3. **Developing a Framework**
- Create an actionable framework for sharing solutions, including components like content development, marketing strategies, and delivery mechanisms.
4. **Validation Methods**
- Introduce methods like feedback gathering, pilot testing, and surveys to evaluate effectiveness and refine the approach.
5. **Implementation Plan**
- List clear, immediate steps to be taken following your guidance to ensure the plan moves forward.
# Output Format
- A written response structured in paragraphs, corresponding to each bullet point.
- Each section should be concise and practical, with direct advice and actionable steps.
- Maintain an encouraging and supportive tone throughout.
HOW TO USE THE PROMPT
Example:
I'm a 35-year-old project manager in tech, making $150K a year. On paper, I'm "successful," but I feel empty inside. I've developed strong skills in digital marketing, project management, and team leadership over the past 8 years. I know these skills are valuable, and I dream of starting my own business, but I keep getting stuck in analysis paralysis. Every morning, I wake up dreading another day of meetings and pointless reports. I've tried forcing myself to be grateful for my "good job," but it feels increasingly fake.
When I think about leaving, my mind floods with fears: "What if I can't pay my bills? What if I fail and have to crawl back to corporate?
Here is the output I received for the example inputs above.
Read the full output here!
My Final Thoughts
Look, I get it. This approach feels foreign. Maybe even scary. We've been conditioned to believe that success requires sacrifice.
But ask yourself: What if the opposite is true? What if working less, thinking more, and living fully is actually the path to greater success?
The world doesn't need more people working themselves to death. It needs more people sharing their genuine insights and helping others succeed.
Now it’s your move.
To your success journey,
Stephan
P.S. What's one solution you've found that could help others? Share it in the comments. Your insight might be exactly what someone needs today.
